People fall in love in mysterious ways

clicked 1Anyone who loves romance – either writing it or reading it – will be familiar with tropes. These are the rhetorical devices that frame the story of how couples end of falling in love against the odds. But real life can be stranger than fiction and there are lots of true stories about the weird and wonderful ways that people end up finding their soul mate – everything from being reunited with the lost love they first held hands with at nursery school, to a lonely widow and widower being set up by their funeral director. It’s all out there! So to celebrate friend of the blog, Sophie Childs, fabulous new novel, We Just Clicked, the Write Romantics had a little chat about our own unusual love stories.

 

Helen P

Sometimes it feels like my husband, Steve, and I have been together forever… However, I guess you could call our clicked 2meeting unusual, as we met when I was on a night out with my friends. It was fancy dress and I was dressed as if I’d been in an accident, on crutches, and covered head to foot with bandages and fake blood. Not exactly the stuff of romantic novels, I suppose, but it worked for us!

 

Lynne

I met my husband, Andy, speed dating at a Christian hippy festival… there’s definitely a novel in there somewhere! But the best true story I ever read was in the ‘Letters from an Extreme Pilgrim’ book by the vicar, Peter Owen Jones. In the book Peter and a friend were working in an advertising agency and he was in a lift and met a young woman he liked. He was spoken for himself, but knew this person was just right for his friend. He came back and told his friend ‘I’ve just met the woman you’re going to marry!’ and he did!

 

Jessica

I met my husband, Mark, online. He’d been online dating on and off for a couple of years but I’d just put my profile on online datinghaving moved to a new area where I didn’t know anyone and having opened a teddy bear shop where any male customers were likely to be buying for their girlfriend/wife/kids. I registered on the Sunday, Mark contacted me on the Monday, and we met on the Wednesday. Inspired by my success, my older brother, Mike, registered on the same dating site and met his wife, Sue. What’s spooky about their story is that they’d actually met when they were young kids. My parents didn’t know Sue’s parents, but they had a mutual friend and were both at the mutual friend’s daughter’s birthday when she was about 4 or 5. There’s photographic evidence! This inspired part of the story in Searching for Steven, which those of you who have read it will definitely recognise.

My mum also knew she was going to marry my dad after their first date, and went home and told her dad that. She’d actually seen him on TV. He’d been a contestant on the gameshow ‘Double Your Money’ in the 60s and my mum remembered this lad on there from Bishop Auckland, then she met him at work and recognised him from that!

 

Jo

As for me? The first time I met my husband, he’d just had back surgery and he asked me to crawl into his under-stairsclicked 3 cupboard and get him some essential household items he couldn’t access. No wonder I’m a romance writer, when real life is like that… Still, it could have been worse, I could still be locked in there and, if I’d read any of Helen Phifer’s books at that stage in my life, I’d never have gone in, in the first place!
If you enjoyed reading about how some of us found love, we think you’ll love Sophie’s book. We Just Clicked tells the story of how Erin finds love, despite serious doubts that these things ever happen in real life.

 

Erin’s life isn’t what you’d call glamorous. She works in admin, has a crotchety boss whose morning coffee she has to fetch, as well as a mother who thinks nothing of breaking the law or the mother/daughter code of acceptable levels of embarrassment.

we just clickedThere are good things in Erin’s life, too, like best friend Bex, and most of all her hot fiancé Ty. But just when she should be finalising wedding plans, Ty announces some big plans of his own which are set to change Erin’s life forever. A newly single Erin, encouraged by Bex and hoping to avoid her mum’s matchmaking attempts, dives right into the world of online dating.

Can you find your Prince Charming at the first click? Well, maybe some lucky people do, but not our Erin! Instead she takes the reader with her on a roller coaster ride of dodgy first dates until it seems she might finally have found her Mr Right.

We laughed with Erin and felt her pain, not just when she was unlucky in love but also when she received some unexpected news about someone she loved, but had taken for granted, which most of us can empathise with. Of course the path of true love didn’t run smooth – this is a romance novel after all – but in the end Erin and the reader get the ending they deserve. Laughter, tears and a big fat dollop of romance… What more could any girl want?

 

We Just Clicked is available from Amazon for just 99p for this week only.

 

We’d love to hear your stories of falling in love in unusual ways and, in the meantime, happy reading.

 

Jo xx

 

 

 

 

 

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Lies, polaroids and taping the Top 40 – how we connected with Kerry Fisher’s brilliant new novel

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I’m an unashamed child of the late 70s and early 80s, when Arctic Roll passed for a sophisticated dessert and you could lose your car keys for a week in the depths of the new shag pile carpet. I remember one birthday, when I was about seven or eight, being given the two things at the top of my wish list – a pogo stick and a Polaroid camera. I never did manage to pogo more than about twice in a row, but the Polaroid camera? Now that was nothing short of a miracle. Within moments – and some vigorous shaking that would give a Jane Fonda workout a run for its money – you had a passable instant image. I remember my dad saying “what will they think of next?”, if only he’d known! Those growing up now can’t move without taking a selfie (from 23 different angles, until they get it right) and posting the ‘wrong’ photo online carries with it the risk of going viral. In 2016 teenagers have their phones permanently attached to them, so almost nothing is safe from being caught on camera.

The WRs – many of whom were children in a similar era to me – were reminiscing this week about the tall tales our parents told in an attempt to protect us, and the fibs we told them in response, hoping to get away with pulling a fast one in an era before cameras came with us everywhere to capture every momentAAA Polaroid Camera.

Jessica confessed to being a secret Easter egg rustler – munching not just hers, but her brother’s Easter eggs before she was supposed to. Smoothing out the foil in the packaging afterwards to give the illusion the eggs remained untouched. Jessica was also warned that, if she played on a local building site, the police would cart her off. When her poor Easter-egg-deprived brother decided to test out his parents’ theory, he just got a polite warning from the boys in blue, but that didn’t stop his sister blackmailing him for sweets for some time to come, it order to keep schtum.

AAA nailbitingHelen R was told that if she bit her fingernails, she’d end up with a ‘manly’ fingernail like her aunt! We have to say that made all the WRs smile.

Lynne was told that if she didn’t eat her greens, she’d never get hairs on her chest. Unsurprisingly, that did little to convince her to tuck in…

Then there were the usual stories about eating carrots helping you to see in the dark and the warning that your face would stay like that if the wind changed. I remember one instance, when my mum had just finished wallpapering the tricky hallway and landing, only for me to accidently tear a bit of the new wallpaper off when I was dashing down the stairs. She asked my sister first and then me, if either of us had done it. We both denied it of course. My mum, wannabe Columbo that she was, told us it was fine and that she’d soon find out who the culprit was, because their tongue would turn black from lying. Cue me, running around hysterically, pulling out my tongue to see if was already too late! Put it this way, in the end, it didn’t take Columbo to work out who the guilty party was.

All of this explains why I loved reading Kerry Fisher’s ‘After The Lie’ so much and connected with Lydia from the prologue, where she was busy trying to tape the Top 40 off the radio, without the DJ butting in. My kids and their Apple Music downloads don’t know they are born. ‘After The Lie’ reveals the dangers a family’s secrets can risk, even in an era when going viral meant a bout of flu and the internet wasn’t even the stuff of science fiction movies. The novel moves from the prologue in the 80s to the present day, but the events of years before are still taking their toll on Lydia’s life:

Something happened in Lydia’s past that has shaped her whole life. Especially as her mother doesn’t given her a second to forget what the incident meant for the whole family. StillAAA After the Lie Lydia manages to put it behind her, or at least to shut it up tightly in a metaphorical box, until her past suddenly collides with her present in a way she could never have envisaged.

I loved both of Kerry Fisher’s earlier novels, ‘The School Gate Survival Guide’ and ‘The Island Escape’, but for me ‘After the Lie’ has hit a new high. As a forty something year old, I’m past the stage where I want to read about the search for ‘Mr Right’. I want to read something I can relate to and ‘After The Lie’ definitely gave me that.

This novel is beautifully written and even the most minor characters have an important role to play. ‘After the Lie’ has you rooting for Lydia, even when you want to shout at her not to do what she’s about to do. It’s believable, relatable and oh so real. This novel’s for readers who know that there’s so much more to life than a happy ever after and I can’t recommend it highly enough.

‘After The Lie’ is currently available on Amazon for just 99p. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did and, in the meantime, we’d love to hear about those little white lies you told growing up, or the ones your parents told you.

Have a great week

Jo xx