Reach for the Stars by Helen Phifer

The past few weeks I’ve been thinking, actually I’ve been thinking a lot because I haven’t had time to write with various family emergencies and long hospital visits. In fact I have very itchy fingers, for me not being able to write is the equivalent of depriving myself of chocolate, I can’t live without it and I can’t live without writing. It’s the most amazing feeling being able to lose yourself in a completely different world as any other writer will tell you, I love the excitement that writing about police officer Annie Graham brings into my everyday life. Although I’m quite relieved that I don’t have to do battle with the serial killers, ghosts and monsters that she does. My amazing readers have been telling me how much book four, The Lake House has been scaring them when Annie finds herself face to face with the creature that dwells in the cellar. In fact I’m relieved that I don’t have a cellar because it gave me nightmares writing about it, but to hear such brilliant feedback is truly amazing and I don’t think I will ever get over the excitement of hearing someone tell me how much they enjoyed a story that I wrote.

Whilst I was doing all this thinking I came up with lists, then lists about my lists. What I realised is that I want to take my writing career as far as it can go and to do this I would have to start stepping out of my comfort zone. I’m quite shy and not to keen on putting myself out there in front of crowds of people but I was offered the opportunity this year to take part in a literary festival where I was to be interviewed in front of an audience. I have to say that I was dreading it but I knew that it was something I would enjoy once I got over my initial nerves, unfortunately because of my son becoming very poorly I wasn’t able to go but I’m hoping to take part next year. I also have big plans next year to attend as many networking author events as possible, again something I’m not too keen on but it’s on one of my lists therefore I will force myself to do it.  Which brings me back to today, well last week actually I got an email from my publishers Harlequin inviting me to attend a ball they were hosting at The Waldorf Astoria in New York. I read that email and sighed, as if I could ever go to a ball especially in New York. I had a list of reasons why I couldn’t, I’m too fat, I’m too shy, I haven’t got a passport was actually the biggie, I haven’t flown for over twenty years, I can’t leave my kids (Who are all adults now as much as I hate to admit it) So I printed off the email and pinned it to my fridge hoping it would inspire me to actually stop eating chocolate and follow my Slimming World plan. Fast forward two days later and my eldest daughter came to visit, she read the invite on the fridge and said ‘You have to go.’ Just like that, I laughed and told her maybe next year. She then made me list why I couldn’t go this year so I told her and she told me they were just excuses, I could get a passport in fact she phoned up and booked appointments for both me and my husband to go to Liverpool to get one three days later. She also told me that there was no point putting it off because I might not get another chance to go. She even talked her dad into going and after a lot of debating and worrying it was finally decided we would. So I’ve started working on my list, the one that said network with other authors and I have to say that I’m thrilled to be finally fulfilling a twenty year old dream of going to New York for my first networking event this year. So reach for the stars my friends because you just might touch them and if you get the chance to do something exciting then go for it because as I’ve learnt this year more than anything life is short so live it.

Helen xx

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6 thoughts on “Reach for the Stars by Helen Phifer

  1. Good for you, Helen! I know we struggle with the same sort of issues and, like you, I’m trying really hard to pluck up the courage to start networking and stepping out of my comfort zone. I don’t know how far I’ll get! I’m seriously considering going to the RNA conference next year, but whether I’ll actually make it who knows. Knowing how tough these things are for you, I’m very proud that you took this giant step. I hope you have a fantastic time. You, more than anyone, deserve it! xx

  2. You’ll have a brilliant time and you shouldn’t be shy because you have so much to offer. You are a best selling author, who is far too modest about it, and an all-round wonderful human being too. You deserve this and I can’t wait to hear all about it xx

  3. Hope you have an amazing time in New York Helen. It’s a fabulous city and I’m sure you’ll love it. And enjoy the ball. I can’t wait to hear all about it when you get back x

  4. What a lovely post, Helen. Cinderella shall go to the ball! I’m loving the new confident-sounding Helen and can’t wait to see where your bravery takes you. I suspect that in any networking event, the vast majority of people are nervous but the scariest bit is turning up in the first place. Once you’ve done that, it will only get better. Looking forward to seeing the pictures and hearing all about New York, New York! xx

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